Yesterday was flippin' brilliant!
The sun hasn't yet risen and her I am blogging instead of sleeping, but I probably had enough of that anyway :) Some thoughts I simply have to put down:
- Trust is not a binary matter where you either have it or you don't. It's more of a scale, and every interaction with someone decides whether they get more or less of it.
- For as much as I have sensed invisible walls with others, I have walls of my own too. Still, I have no intention of letting them get in my way, especially since all they're really doing is keeping others out when all I really want is for a few special people to be in.
- Honesty, upfront and shameless, is always the best policy. No mincing of words. Nothing risked, nothing gained!
- I must keep going after what I want in life, but this time it needs to be with a sense of reckless abandon. I know it will be painful at times, but why attempt to dodge those bits? By now I've long realised that it's because of the hard times that I can appreciate the good ones.
- Every step I decide to take brings me one step closer to where I want to be. Also, not taking the steps does nothing more than leave you paralysed and may even give others the exact opposite impression to what you really intended. So take the goddamn steps and keep going!
- It's bloody refreshing to not be the only one taking initiatives, and that's a trait I'll definitely want in my partner. I love proactive people!
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